How do you feel and what do you hear when someone says ‘I trust you..’?
Trust is a hard thing to grasp at times, especially if you give it to someone to only be let down…time and time again.
Trust is something that precious to me, something that someone has to gain from me. Over time even the few I’ve let in to trust have ended up letting me down in the long run. Promises not met, sweet talking that was empty, catching them in avoiding the truth or lying.
How do we as women navigate through the men and know who to trust anymore? I hunger to trust someone, to give my life in their hands and know that they will always be there to take care of me. That there is no doubt in my mind I can trust them to be honest and straightforward whether good or bad.
I feel so broken with so much distrust in people and men. Perhaps in the long runs it’s because I have no faith or hope to trust in them.
How do you know to trust someone…when their actions aren’t following through?
Perhaps its time guys stop making promises they aren’t going to follow through on, saying things that they soon after don’t feel, and doing things that might contradict them.
And I am tired of feeling burned every time I give it to someone…I’m tired of crying about it and pouring my soul over it…
So how can I gain that trust then? There must be a happy ending to my lack of trust story …I’m not sure…but I am working on it, I don’t want to be closed off and angry….
Can i trust you?
Why should i trust you?
How can you show me I can trust you?
If you break that trust...how will you repair it?
Did you really ever care in the first place...?