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TRUTHS (or at least my personal truths):
1. No one is, or ever will be EXACTLY perfect for you. There will always be at least something that will annoy the living f*ck out of you. Pick your battles. Decide what you can live with.
2. Just because you see something quite clearly, do not expect your significant other to always comprehend things in the same way. Patience is key here...so is compromise.
3. There will be rough times. This is the reason for a solid foundation. However, if there are rough spots in the beginning, chances are, this relationship will not weather the bigger storms to come. Pay attention to early warning signs.
4. When you're having trouble in your relationship, do not go to a "friend" of the opposite sex to confide in. This can be problematic on many levels...probably more than you could ever guess. You HAVE to talk to your partner about your issues, even if its hard. You two are the ONLY people who can resolve your relationship problems.
5. Sometimes the hottest fires burn out the fastest. A slow, building burn is a far better approach in the long run. Don't let lust and butterflies ruin what could be a good thing, given a little patience.
6. Sometimes relationships end, not because you're incompatible...but because you've rushed through the building process to reach a "destination". A relationship is NOT a destination. It's yet another journey. Be prepared to walk the path with someone...don't carry your partner, and don't allow someone to carry you. Eventually, one of you will tire out.
