What if you found that ultimate person...that one that you know in your heart, mind, body & soul was the ONE. What if they lived far? That GU=(geographically undesirable)person. What would you do?
Finding a person that will complete our lives in every way is our ultimate goal. Everyone was made and programmed that way. To find someone that completes us, that fills our hearts with joy, is our best friend, our loyal and trustworthy companion.
Most of us search for this person on a daily basis, and keep finding our hearts ripped out at the seams because that person couldn't fulfill a part of us or WE couldn't fulfill them. Sometimes we find someone who can never be that person we would like them to be.
I dated someone for 7 years. We Never fought! We were best friends and loved each other dearly. We had SO much fun doing even mundane day to day things together. He was my world. And one day, he just sat down and said he couldn't do it anymore!!! Shock to me! I was happy! Here's the thing: as much as we LOVED each other, our life goals weren't the same. I wanted marriage and kids. He didn't want either, as much as he tried to want it.
So now, here I am .......still single with a few failed relationships along the way-and wonder....What IF I found HIM??? Would I travel and move there? Would I take every chance I could? Or would I give up and state hopelessness because it just could never be? How do people know this if they don't take that chance?
I know I am a strong person. I can be alone and okay with it. Some girls and guys cannot. They feel they "MUST" be in a relationship, whether its good or bad. I would rather be alone and single than with someone and miserable!!
So Please Ponder these thoughts carefully. IF you met someone, that one person who you could share the rest of your lifetime with in blissful happiness, would you honestly do everything possible to be with that person? Or would you just think to yourself........oh there's other fish in the sea....another will come around. Would you really take a risk for someone to spend your life with?
