Physical attraction for me is awesome! Its fantastic......but then what? I can only stare at your pretty little heart-shaped butt for so long............I mean, er...........face ya thats it.
Mental Attraction is futile! It is a MUST in my little book of I WANTS in a man. So for the man who has all the looks and personality, but asks........what does she mean by this? (and for those who have absolutely no clue what I am writing about-here ya go)
Mental attraction for me is the way someone can say or write things that pull at your heart strings. Its when you can actually relate on their level what they are trying to convey about themselves. I feel that Mental attraction is very personal. It is something that makes someone actually have to come out of their shell and share about themselves and risk being accepted or rejected.
EXAMPLE: I really love it when someone can read what I am writing right now, and have something be touched from the inside and they say.........OMG She read my mind.
That, my friends is an example of mental attraction.
Some have it and some don't. Ok here's another example: We are talking and we have the same hobbies.......all great and good....then you say: ya and in my spare time I collect dolls and watch cartoons............
OK- the sound of a record screeching is going off in my head...........this is NOT mental attraction to me personally. Ok maybe to a 17-21 yr old girl, they could relate......but I certainly cant--not when you are over 27.
Another one of those NON mental attractions for me is someone telling me they live with their parents. And as my best friend also pointed out- Being Jobless and over 27... Cannot handle it. Now this is just me. Different strokes for different folks.
I find myself HIGH maintenance in this area. Its not that I need to be "Entertained". I want to be able to have conversation and share my dreams goals and life experiences both daily past and present with someone and he with me. I WANT to know what you did last Saturday night and WAS IT a good shampoo!!!! If not, I may be able to recommend a better one!
