Well, what can I say about this subject except what love means to me.. To me love is a partnership between two people that envolves giving and taking of emotional, mental, physical, and matrial things. But, mostly it envovles sacrafice... to give the person you love everything that is yourself with out asking for anything in return... If you have to ask for something in return then maybe its not what you think it is. Love is a great feeling to have and if you love someone it means you trust them with everything. Trust is one of the main keys to love, that and communication.
Love fustrates us to no ends, and basicly it is a huge emotion that can really mess up someones life very fast if you think with your heart. You have men out there that feel that love is the permission given to own a woman and to control them, and you have women out there that feel that love is acceptable Forgiveness for anything a guy might do wrong. I feel that any women or man ever uses that phrase "but I love him/her" and forgives them for betraying them, should be considered easy prey and gulible and never be allowed to make a desision for themselvesbased on emotions. Granted love makes you blind and dumb sometimes but not everyday for the rest of your life. Use your Heart to feel, not to think, thats what your brain is there for.
And to put it simply I'm not perfect either and I have been betrayed several times before, and used more times then I need to count. But life is a learning experience. Use some common sense. I'm doing it... or trying atleast.. So when you read this and your in love with someone think about what they do for you and how they treat you. Talk to them about how you feel and what bothers you about them, don't be afraid to hurt them. If they love you they will understand your point and not think your trying to bring them down or blame them. Do things for them to show you love them. Try and make them happy as they try to make you happy. You might be suprised to find that they might love you alot, or might be just useing you for something. Either way just think with your brains people....
This has been a friendly message and not a full blown in your face Rant, by Sir Rant Alot
