Being a lady of knowing what she wants seems to bring about the idea that for some reason my sexual identity will magicly change from submissive to dominant. I have no real interest in domination, although on rare, very rare at that, occasions I will be in the mood to torment my lover. Usually the end result is me giving up and being the 'lil girl' again at my lovers feet and in some way begging forgiveness.There is a sense of power when in such a role, but it is not that appealing to me, I do not trust myself to guage pain or to not inflict the wrong kind of harm. When I am in those moods I am usually sated with a bit of fighting back and that is that. A bit of my own clawing, biting and shoving takes down that side a fair ammount of quick.
I am not that aggressive and do not plan to be, so I have the question.. why do submissive men/bois contact me with the questions if if I am dominant when I state that it is not a part of my make-up. Switching is fine, but I am not a fan of the domination game from my point of view. Nah, I will pass, I keep enough control over my regular life that I want to give up control when in my bedroom.
Sexual identity doent change for a lot of people, not for me at the least. I will continue to be my bedroom submissive self for a long time to come.
