Drew's blog: "the truth in people"

 People show there true nature when they are at the edge. when life get's hard who are you really. do you enter a stat of column and watch what you say try to figure things out, or excitement lash out in fear saying whatever comes to mind. What come's first anger, or pain, and will you let yourself feel pain? Anger is the body's natural way of telling you something Isn't right. It's meant to be dismissed as quickly as it came, then replaced with pain from being hurt, that's all anger really is. feeling the pain and crying help's your body release the toxins produced by stressful feeling's, also giving your body the chemical's it needs to properly heal. When you us anger to replace pain. there Isn't any healing that takes place. the chemicals that have been produced from stress have know way out. They can only dwell inside one after the other to later harm you physical, and manifest mentally and emotionally.
     The more you repeat this pattern the easier it is to do, and the harder it is to change. In my experience this most often when someone has felt a great deal of pain in there life time, and is sick of feeling that way. they may us anger to hide. Thinking it will shield them from what may come next, but in fact it only adds stress trying to keep it all out. You can't protected yourself by never letting anything in. It will always affect you, If you let it in or not, and keeping everything out will leave you sad and alone. The key is trying to deal with it appropriately and going through the proper steps we all must take as human being's. There are know exceptions we are all vary similar, in the affects that life and others throw at us. Anger is just easier to feel at the time, but as i said before the easy thing in life Aren't  worth having. I don't know about you, but I will deal with the pain now and learn from it. If it will change me for the better and heal me.........come on that one's a know brainier.  Don't put up a wall It doesn't have to affect you long term, but it's always going to right now. We have to learn to live with it, that's life take it how you want it. with pain and healing or stress and anger.