Anissa Christine's blog: "Losing a "friend""

I have been very close to a certain "someone" on here for over a year and a half.  We have shared laughter, a few tears...and had the occassional disagreement. Not so long ago he met someone on here...whom he eventaully found out was not who she said she was (imagine that?).  Well during his getting to know her phase he withdrew from me...I knew something was up but wasn't sure what. Anyway once he told me I was kind of upset I mean he blew me off for some chick.  I on the other hand have always been a faithful friend..never swaying. Well I was hurt...he begged for me to forgive him so I did. Fast forward to two weeks ago..I notice his behavior is once again "changing". And why you ask??? Yet another Fubar woman.  This one is a real piece of work..she has so much baggage she puts Samsonite to shame. This time however he decided to move this woman in with him. Ok wait...rewind...prior to me finding out she now lives with him..she pretended to be "him" and proceeded to have a conversation with me. I was furious to say the least and made sure he knew this. He wants me to play "nice" with her and I simply refuse to do so...I have a zero tolerance policy for liars.

Well now when I call she has to be right there and when we IM she has to be observing the conversations. I really am torn...I love him dearly...but she is a psychotic/emotional mess (I can say this with some level of certainty, because I do have the credentials to back it up)...I do not want the stress. Nor do I want our conversations monitored..my life is NONE of her business.  He wants me to be happy for him...I just can't...she is mean to him..and is insecure. So although I say my friendship has never waivered...I just don't know if I should throw in the towel..is there ever a time when enough is enough?? Would I be doing him a favor by just "disappearing"?

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