Sam In NjI would love to find love in my life again, I been so lonely this last 5 years, can a 58 y.o. man and disable find love again. What does being alone does to me, no one to cheer with, no one to hold you when your sad, no one to talk to on a bad day, no one to watch a show with, it wears on your mind and body in so many ways. When i was younger I was scared of dieing alone, and now it looks like its going to happen.