doc's blog: "DOC'S TALK "

I wrote this in response to a person who wanted bullys to stop and be nice    

I have lived my whole life trying to stop bullies from hurting people. I was bullied as a very young child and as soon as I was able to defend myself I did, I have been blessed with size and strength. Not all people can do that, but speaking up for ones self must be mastered also. Adults, not in fear of physical violence, should also learn to stand up for themself. This builds self esteem and coping skills, the ablity to take a joke, or brush off and insult. In the Cyber world (FuBar) people can practice standing up for ones self and also block delete or change settings. This Cyber World of social networks (FuBar) also, gives would be bullies a chance to "pay back" for the pain they endured.  This is a twisted result of low self esteem, be stronger than those and delete them. I encourage all to take charge of your life, have fun here, and make the friends you want to have. Remember FuBar is NOT real life! people here only have the power you give them by careing what is said or done in the Cyber World. I understand wanting this to be reposted but saying that those that don't, "don't have a heart" is wrong too this is a type of peer preasure to guilt people into doing what you say. Your compassion is good enough, you can not force or pressure people in to being good.  I hope those that read this teach this one at a time and, we all have more fun on FuBar.