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Carpe Diem's blog: "Personality"

created on 11/20/2013  |  http://fubar.com/personality/b356561  |  1 followers

How I love

When it comes to matters of the heart, I go all in. As long as I'm happy, so will you be. That consists of the 2 by 2 by 2 rule. For those of you that don't know what that is, here is the rundown. Date night every 2 weeks, a weekend getaway every 2 month, and a week together every 2 years. You treat me the way I deserve to be treated, no other man will ever exist to me. However, if you do not, any relationship issues fall on you. 

I should have an equal say in every decision made in the relationship. Making decisions for both of us without the other is just wrong. A man's job  is to provide, protect, and lead. This isn't up for debate. When I mean provide, I mean everything financial. I get that once in a blue moon, things happen. However, if I have to do any of it as a woman on a regular basis, you are not a real man. Sorry. To protect a woman is to protect her heart and protect her physically. Not allowing any harm to come to her. If you cannot protect her heart, you don't deserve her. Point blank. The latter is self-explanatory. Then there is the leading aspect. You lead by example. You are the spiritual leader of the home. 

Now for the woman's role. To nurture, teach, and comfort. What does that entail? To nurture, teach, and comfort. What does that entail you ask? Nurturing is not just for the man's sake, but also for the sake of the children. Someone who is kind, gentle, and caring. Someone who knows exactly how to cheer up the other effortlessly and does it. To pick you up when you have fallen down. To teach. To teach you how to be a better person, a better man, by example. To teach the children how to be caring, responsible adults. To become self-sufficient. The last one, comfort. This involves cooking a decent meal, keeping the house clean, handling the household responsibilities. 

Now, I am aware times are different. I am in agreement. These roles can be bent or flexed. If a man is not able to complete his role, he has no right to expect the same from her. PERIOD! That's right fellas. If I am handling my own business and sharing the burden of providing while managing the house, do not expect a home cooked meal or a clean house all the time. Not happening. No woman wants to raise another "child".

With that being said, if you are not able to do what a man requires, you interfere with her happiness. That's not fair to her. On another note, if I am happy, you will receive a full body massage once a week , every week. A home cooked meal at least 4 times a week will be waiting for you and the house will always be clean. Not to mention, I will make sure you are more than satisfied. You will be spoiled....

September Auction

 

Here is what you get for each coin pack. I am open for discussion on other possibilites.

 

65 coin pack:

10% of my points

Daily pimp out

Rate 10 photos

Like and Rate Daily

Shitface Daily

Polish 10 bling daily

Point Boost Extreme Daily

Bling of my choice

Permanent spot in my family

Shoutout to you in 3 of my blasts

 

135 Coin Pack:

All of the above plus

2 pimp outs daily

Top family spot

100 bling polished daily

100 picture rates daily

Alturize once a week

Ability bling of my choice

 

350 credit pack:

All of the above plus

FOB in my name during ownership

1 alturize during a powerup run

Extra point boost extreme daily 

2 sfw salutes

 

1000 credit pack:

All of the above plus

Bling of your choice up to 100 credits

Ability bling of your choice up to 50 credits

Current Playlist

Like I said before, if you want to know someone well, listen to their music. Here is my current playlist.

 

 

Nara- E.S. Posthumous

Thousand Years- Sting

Live to Tell- Madonna

Careless Whisper- WHAM!

Don't want to cry- Mariah Carey

All the man that I need- Whitney Houston

El Lamento De Carmen

You are my home- Vanessa Williams and Chayanne

Forever in Love- Kenny G

Songbird- Kenny G

Whisper of a Thrill- Thomas Newman

Rain Man- Hans Zimmer

Crockett's Theme- Mark Ayres

No ordinary love- Sade

Cherish the day- Sade

Satisfy You- P.Diddy


More on who I am

If you have already read my profile, this blog should be more in depth. The intellectual side. I graduated high school and college with honors. I was accepted into West Point Academy. This is a big deal. It is one of the top colleges in the country. Many of our presidents went to college there. I did not apply to this college. They came after me. I have an extensive background in psychology. I'm also an artist in my spare time and have experience in Interior Design. I'm a licensed massage therapist, graduated top of my class, and currently practicing for over 8 years now. I love helping others with personal issues they can't figure out on their own and helping those deal with physical pain. I can't stand it when someone is hurting. I have had my fair share of pain both emotionally and physically, so I can relate. I have had 7 surgeries from now since 18 years of age. Surgery doesn't scare me anymore. I just want to get it over with. I have a hard exterior and soft interior meaning that my shield is always up and if I suspect anything of you I don't like you will be cast aside and quickly. I am delicate on the inside and can easily get hurt. It's usually by those I have let in. Believe me, I just don't let anyone in. I'm very specific and yes, I will figure it out if you're not worth my time. I have studied human behavior for the better part of 25 years. It's rather fascinating looking at the actions of others and studying their patterns.

On a personal level, I'm a straight shooter. I have no issues or reservations telling people exactly what I think whether it hurts someone or not. However, I will hold some things back out of consideration for the feelings of another person. If you manage to piss me off, I will NOT hold back. I am highly educated on matters of the heart and what it takes to keep a man happy. I also know what both men and women want in regards to relationships. Unfortunately, most of it boils down to the thrill of the chase and that works on both ends of the spectum. If you don't keep things interesting, the other walk if not run away. I have always been the type of woman who has more guy friends than girls, mainly because guys are low key and low-maintenance with far less drama. I miss having girlfriends and girls' night out, but some women have a tendency to be frenemies than real friends.

If we ever become friends, I WILL push your limits. The reason why is because I am looking for REAL friends here. It takes strength, patience, and loyalty to be a great friend and if you are worthy of my friendship, you will end up in my family. I keep a close watch of my family(hey even I make mistakes). Not everyone is who they appear to me. I take care of those who take care of me. I believe that each friendship should be one of reciprocation(equal parts of give and take), loyalty, compassion, and one that will stand the test of time. I can't stand those who are pervy, pushy, or disgusting on the inside. It's enough to make me ill.

I do have some hobbies as well. They include photography, scrapbooking, and art. I also enjoy reading, but the book has to hold my interest the whole time or I will stop reading. I love taking pictures. I've been doing since I was kid and love the many different ways you can take a photo. The best part is capturing a moment in a photo. I enjoy making collage pieces out of my photos. I use my scrapbooking skills for each piece I make.

As far as my romantic life goes, I have learned that men are simple creatures. I am not putting down a man, what I mean is that their pleasures are simple. For the most part, a man just wants a woman to take care of them, GOOD care of them. Like women, every man's tastes are different. It is the job of every person whether man or woman to figure that out. Some guys just want a someone to "love them". Others require a combination of skills. Trying to find a man or woman that is "perfect" is impossible. Also, men are incapable of change. Women grow and change often.Accept a person, flaws and all and you'll be better off, but don't settle until you realize the person you're with is as good as it gets.


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