My letter to him this morning
There are some things I need to say and if I don't say them now I never will. There were other options that could have happened with us before you cheated on me. You could have gone ahead and found a place of your own or even just told me you were going to rather then asking, even though I asked you to give this family more time. We moved too fast and stepping back and starting from an earlier point in a "relationship" was an option. I had not realized how much stress my family really was putting on you.
I'm also still very hurt that all last week you flat would not talk to me, you told me it was work stuff or nothing, and all the time you were already planning on leaving me in pieces.
I knew you meeting her was not a good thing for me, but I TRUSTED you, and that is something you will never get back from me.
I will try and be a friend to you, but you know as well as I do that's not going to be an easy task. There's a part of me that even says "why not just try dating like normal people do?" but I know as long as you're living with her I will not be able to make that happen.
Also a side note, my timeline in the previous post was a bit off. I met him in NC when I took my trip to Virginia earlier in the year. October is when he moved down here.
~~L
