Most people tend to think that physical pain and mental anguish is the worst pain a person can feel but those tend to let u know ur alive and that your human. One of the worst pains one can feel is that of ones heart. Most say that you can control how your heart behaves but that is untrue. For your heart moves in mysterious ways and no one truly knows what it has in store for us. It causes one to love unconditionally and not to second guess as to the purpose of such an emotion. Everyone wants to be and feel love for that is human nature. But then there is those of us who have been hurt to the point your walkin on egg shells when it comes to anything that deals with love. Many try to explain the way a persons heart moves and does what it does but it is like tryin to explain the mystery of life. No one truly knows but all try to rationally explain it in one form or another. Love that one feels is the purest of all emotions. But so many take that emotion and twist it to suit their purposes for that moment. And people tend to say I Love You as if it is just something common to say and it tends to lose its true meaning. Some say that sex is an expression of love but what they fail to realize is that sex is just a desire and no true meaning comes from it. The meaning one finds in it is the one that they give it to rationalize the act in itself. So many times over the years I have overheard so many people say or even think "well if I do this or that then this person will love me" which is very untrue. For if a person it to truly love another it first comes from within and you dont try to change another. For if you truly love someone then that means that you love them for who they are reguardless of their imperfections no matter what they might be. And its a love that is so unconditional that one can not simply just take it back if they become bored of the other person. So many times people rush into things because they are tired of being alone and it is in these times that one can be hurt the most.