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July 13, 2009

Scott La Marca…Army Soldier

 

My concern as an American is that we allow our soldiers to fight for our freedom, put their lives on the line and their families and children also pay while they are gone to serve OUR COUNTRY. We turn our backs on them and the battles they fight that are not of their doing but others that may commit these crimes such as i.e. making false statements and to the courts accusing them of something they did not do, and other crimes the people they know did but the soldier is being held responsible for their actions when they return from a deployment. We repay them by allowing their children not to spend time with them when they return from being deployed or military missions. We allow the spouse or ex-spouse to go to court and make false statement claims that end up taking their rights away while being a soldier. The crazy part is we allow the spouse or ex-spouse to make false statements that allow restraining orders, and change child custody in their favor which normally wouldn’t occur because a solider is deployed , which put the soldier in a financial bind and unable to make it to court or even pay for a attorney even thou they requested another date for the hearing, or can’t get leave due to military reasons. We have not protected our soldiers like they have protected us from harm, danger or threats. We have very few politicians to stand up for our soldiers and change the law for all states to allow a soldier to regain their rights as parents to the children left behind because we need soldiers to be their best for our battles in whatever country they are needed. But our country which is still the United States of America is leaving the soldiers rights behind by not allowing their rights as parents to be justified to be taken away from them. Have they abandoned their children for selfish reasons, abused them, neglected them for the purpose of the United States to remain strong in the defense of this nation and it’s citizens? NO!! We are doing it to our soldiers everyday and it is not right. So stand up and do the right thing so that our children grow up to be the best that they can be by allowing them the right to have a soldier as a parent. A soldier has a lot to give to his/her child just look at what they have given to us the American people..FREEDOM!! Now it is our turn to repay the favor and allow their rights as parents to not so easily be taken away from them. They have not committed a crime or by being a soldier for the United States of America. Give them all a fighting chance to be heard and the legal support they need to defend themselves against these people that make these false legal issue for them and to be the parents of the next generation of soldiers? Or they could they be our next President who will support the rights of soldiers because they were denied their soldier parent as a part of their lives while growing up in a house that takes soldiers for granted. You need to hear my soldier friend’s story who has served 18 years in the United States Army and who has deployed more then once and will again deploy to fight for our country’s freedom. He has a son who is being denied the right to be with his soldier father by an ex-wife Gayle Buaman who has lied to the courts to get her case heard. By getting a false protection order, a judge will not allow this soldier another date for the court hearing so he can fight for his right as a soldier parent. So this then allows another soldier to lose their child to a personal war that effects his child and himself to bond with his own son. A son he hasn’t seen since 2007 because his ex-wife Gayle Buaman has done everything to restrict his involvement in his child’s life by buying plane tickets to get to a show in her line of work, to seeing her husbands family at Christmas in Arizona knowing that the soldier was returning back from Iraq before Christmas. After another a year of deployment (2005-2006) Scott called Gayle to have his son meet him at the airport in Clarksville, Tennessee but Gayle had other plans with her husband and Scott was not met by his son. Scott then called to ask where is son was and why he wasn’t there to meet him. Scott asked to have his son for a couple of weeks after he got things back in order after returning from Iraq. She was told by the soldier he wants to see his son when he gets home and then she went to court to falsely accuse Scott La Marca of wanting to kidnap his son that he already had custody of at that time she was given a temporary restraining order by the judge. Gayle agreed to let Scott come get his son for a couple of weeks. Scott drove 3 hours to Missouri and was met with a county sheriff and officers serving him with protective orders while his son watched from a distance but then was told to go into the house. Scott never talked or hugged his son while this was happening. Why has all of this been allowed to happen to a United States Army soldier who has put his life on the line for the United States of America? And why would a woman who has abandoned her son 3 times in his life twice at Fort Bragg ,which put this soldier out of the Army under chapter 5-8 and after he was in the reserves in Dallas Texas she left the child again at a daycare to leave with her mother to Arizona. But could be given custody to this child, when the soldier has had custody in a court from another state all this time. She should feel lucky to have the ability to reconnect with her son. Which Scott has given her that chance to rebuild a relationship with her son as to let her be the one to watch him for military reason as a family care provider but in return all he asked was his son back in his possession. You can hear more of his personal story by contacting him at 469-955-8150 or 469-236-4004 or email at sxyactor69@yahoo.com. Do you think you can handle hearing a true soldiers story? I hope and pray that you do because unfortunately he is not alone in this hometown war because there are many soldiers returning home to this tragedy. But he is alone by the support of the American people and the politicians who claim they can not help because of their rules under office, to see the truth that is happening to many soldiers whose stories are not heard much less given any attention by the media to support our troops. As I write this letter his chance to regain his son is being taken away from him because on July 14, 2009 at 9 am in the state of Missouri at the courthouse in Jefferson county by a Judge Lisa K. Page will decide to give custody to Gayle Bauman because Scott La Marca can not attend the court hearing due to financial bind because of the legal actions that Gayle Bauman and Kerrie committed while he was deployed in Iraq and he will not have any other source funds available until the 15^th of July. Scott La Marca is stationed at Fort Bragg, North Carolina which is about a 14 hour drive from the courthouse in MO. He sits in his 2 bedroom condo frustrated, hurt and upset that his son is further away from him then just a fourteen hour drive because his chances of him regaining his son by his side is being stripped away.

Thank you,

T. T. Denney