Everyone has their opinion, please feel free to voice yours, but I feel that Married men are selfish.
When a Man and a Woman get married it is supposed to be a lasting bond. You give yourself to each other and promise to be faithful.
It isn't supposed to be an I am yours until I get bored and want to fool around with someone else while still remaining bonded as Husband and Wife.
I am only speaking from my point of view. I am sure there are Women out there who display the same kind of disrespect for that bond, but damnit. How selfish is that?
I have had my fair share of married men trying to get together with me and when I say no thanks, they just persist. I don't give a rats ass if you are unhappy or if you aren't getting any or if you have kids. I don't want any part of it.
I'll talk to you, I'll be your friend but don't expect me to be part of some selfish fantasy of having your cake and eating it too. It isn't fair to me and it isn't fair to the Wife.
I personally feel that I deserve more than being with someone else's man. I don't like to share and I don't want to be the other Woman. I know some Women do, but I can't understand why.
As far as using the kids as a reason to stay together.. don't! It's just lame. Move on, get divorced and get away from a long gone situation, because if you really wanted to make things work, you wouldn't be trolling looking for a piece of ass to put out.
Whew, I guess I have an opinion on this huh.. laters.