The following is a real situation i have to deal with, and I know what I am going to say to the room mate, but I figure I can get some ideas and advice from you fine people, as out spoken as you are.
I am having some issues concerning my room mate, who has a son and a daughter living here. There are 5 kids in the house at least half the time, 3 of which arent mine. I for the most part take care of my twins and their sister, and my ex wife works and when she wants to go socialize I am obviously watching my boys..well the other room mate likes to go out with her and I have been willing to watch her kids cuz they are usually going to bed when they leave. But its going on about three weeks shes been here, and two of those weeks I have been the cook, the house maid, the baby sitter AND the one putting groceries in the house...I have to put my foot down before it goes any further.
She is getting child support and food stamps...GETTING...she hasnt put any food in the house, payed for anything, and when I went to the fights on monday, I paid the babysitter and havent been payed back yet, and she promised she was getting cs the next day...well i think she got it and didnt pay me, or buy food...
My problem is she is one of those people who says "Im not going out tonight, ive been partying too much" but then guess what happens... im the one getting the short end of the stick...and im not interested in making her pay me with sex either lol
Im gonna tell her im not gonna watch her kids and im not gonna continue putting my money up to feed everyone if she isnt gonna handle her shit right. shes a mother ffs and acts like a single bitch with no kids.
I guess I really dont need advice so much as just some place to rant before i talk to her, so i dont say the wrong thing, i know how there is a big difference between the way she thinks and how i think...
as you were
ps, sorry its a wall of words