Ok, here's my story. I have and been in love with this guy that I was dating, engaged to, and then turned into friendship, except I don't get the cuddly, love, love to spend time with you kind of feeling. He is a party boy. Never the less, I love him, what should I do, keep him as a best friend or try to make the relationship work? I am so confused and drunk. amd I guess that doesn't help. My son and daughter in law love him and think he is the best thing that ever happened to me since my divorce. I could use some help with this one.