In the month of September my children's grandparents(paternal) passed away..It was said that their grandfather shot his wife twice in the back then took his own life over financial issues...Well, my ex calls me that morning when he discovered his parents dead in their bedroom..When I told him that I called the police he got very angry..well...wouldn't one ASSUME to call the police when you find your parents dead not knowing what happened??? He wasn't crying or even upset, just kept saying they killed themselves because of the stress I put them through (our home was in my ex's name and his father) so I put alot of pressure on him to do much needed home repairs...Well, that is so unfair to say it is MY fault...and how did he know they killed themselves without the police doing an investigation??? He claims he went into the bedroom and threw the shotgun across the room then said "i shouldn't have touched the evidence"..hmmmm....I still find it hard to believe a man who was 5'4, very short man, shot himself in the stomach with a 12 gauge shotgun...or killed his wife that he loved very much for that matter...So many things don't add up..all my ex talks about is the "money he will be getting"...In all honesty, I hope he rots in hell with that money..I find out today from his lawyer that because he worked pretty much under the table with his father only receiving a small amount of money in the form of a check HE ONLY HAS TO PAY A LITTLE OVER 100 BUCKS A WEEK IN CHILDSUPPORT FOR FOUR CHILDREN, ONE OF WHICH IS AUTISTIC!!! He hasn't spoken to his children since September 19th and his son's 12th birthday was on the 21st..My children HATE their father for the many years of abuse they went through at his hands..(alot of abuse I am just now coming to learn from them from times when I was not in the home)..I have alot of guilt because of the pain they went through because of him even though I know it's not my fault ...at one time he was a semi-decent man...I don't know where things went wrong, most men would be honored to have four sons...but not him...He chooses his pornography, cheap women and alcohol...I know my children are better off without him and I have a wonderful man in my life now, Shawn(everdreamer) who they call Daddy now...He has been financially supporting the children for the past six months now and helping the children with homework, playing football with them and being there for them which they need so much right now...My ex is coming into alot of money which is his according to NJ law the kids have no rights to any money inherited to their father which is not right, they should have rights...
