Perhaps the only thing that keeps us focused is what we fancy. It turns into something we like. What we like changes into something we care about. What we care about we progresses into love. Eventually we fancy too many things and in turn love so much, that our love is spread too thin. Then our love is not love anymore, just caring a lot for the things that we once fancied. There is only one solution, shown best by the dragons of the world: "Love one and only one."