i havent been getting on here that much in the last few weeks.Well heres why my husband Dave had surgery on his spine Tuesday and i have been spending the time to get ready.there was alot to do and haveing to do it all by myself to me awhile but i did it.now im just taking care of Dave makeing sure hes ok and just doing everything for him or atleast trying to get him to let me do everything for him with out me yelling at him lol This whole thing has been harder on him then he thought it would be. It hurts to see Dave in this much pain and knowing that theres nothing i can do breaks my heart.I would give or do anything to take his pain away and it i could id trade places with him in a heartbeat.