I am married to a wonderful woman that I adore and love with all of my heart. Her and I have been through so much in our 10+ years of marriage now and we are not perfect by any means. But to us we are a rare find as far as a couple goes. We are able to communicate openly and honestly with each other and I feel that that is the reason that we have survived and flourished. Our problem if you want to call it that is that people just can't understand how her and I can love each other so much and yet still find friends with benefits. Yes its true. I don't mind her getting some different cock and she doesn't mind if I get some different "kitty". It isn't for everyone and we fully understand that. We just wish that we could find other people that can accept that we are human and the desire to explore our sexuality with others is a driving force that is not understood because we feel that there has been to much brainwashing and not enough free thinking. Some people will call what we do cheating on each other but to us we know that we are in love with each other and that the desire to have a little bit of variety is not something to be feared but something to be embraced. Its not that we look for different people all the time but we are able to admit to each other that it is nice to have that variety and still be able to come home to the person that we love. I am sure that none of this makes a lot of sense but it is nice to be able to get it off my chest.
