The secret to relationship happiness
How can we make love last? Our team of California Psychics say there are many theories and many answers, but one of the biggest factors in creating everlasting love is to continue to find new dreams and goals to share throughout your life together. Dreaming together inspires trust, communication and hope, they say, and provides the freshness it takes to keep a relationship alive and growing. And, they suggest, don't forget what brought you together in the first place!
When you're committed to a relationship through marriage or a partnership, spiritually you have signed up to take a life-long journey together. Hopefully you've already agreed on just what that means to each of you. If you haven't, it's time to discuss it, and if you have… be sure to chart your progress along your way.
"There is nothing spontaneous about a partnership," describes Sylvia ext. 9520, who specializes in love partnerships. "It takes two people who are working together to build something, whether it's a family, home, business, or a life together… This is where most people get into trouble. They just decide to move in or get married and then that's it. Instead you both need to talk about what your expectations, needs and wants are. In essence you both lay your cards on the table and think about where you are going and make acceptable compromises," the psychic suggests.
TeriLynn ext. 9625 agrees, saying that, "Love has a better chance of lasting when both people in the relationship have trust in each other and are honest enough to communicate all along their journey together." Respecting one another's personal and spiritual growth, enjoying the companionship, sharing thoughts with continued interest, and adding laughter to the mix, develop the very important element of nurture to the nature of your togetherness, she adds.
Sylvia has a game plan that she suggests to her clients, who need help along their love path. Each person writes down the answers to two questions. What are your expectations of this relationship? Where do you see yourself in five years? Where do you see this relationship in five years? Then trade papers and read and talk, keeping in mind that you are each individuals with needs creating a relationship that you both will find fulfilling. This is one of the best exercises you can do together, because without a future, your relationship will stagnate and end in boredom."
Elly ext. 9569 says she would add another question to the list, suggesting that in order to make love last, it is vital for both people to define what love is and to understand the answers deeply. In fact, you, your partner as well as the relationship may each require a unique view of love.
Ron ext. 9545 reminds us that "Love is not something we can control or order around. If you truly love your partner, you will constantly appreciate their input with the understanding that they have freely chosen to be with you."
The same way that you get someone is how you keep them, explain Lourdes ext. 9390 and Melinda ext. 9579. You must realize your part of the responsibility in taking care of a true love relationship. If you expect someone you love to stay in your life, nurture them and the relationship as if it were a plant. For a plant to thrive and grow you need to give it sunshine and love, water, food and communication. At the beginning of your relationship you courted, were on your best behavior, made plans for the future... to make love last, don't let that change!
Taken from www.californiapsychics.com
