How To Get What You Want From Women
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Let me ask you a question.
What is "SUCCESS" to you when it comes to
women?
If I asked you to give me a detailed
explanation of EXACTLY how your life would be if
you had ULTIMATE SUCCESS with women, could you do
it?
Sure, most guys would say something like,
"Success to me would be being able to walk up to
any woman and get a date with her"... or "Success
to me would be dating as many women as I
wanted"... or "Success to me would be having a
really sexy girlfriend", etc.
These are the kinds of answers I hear when I
ask guys this question.
But there's a PROBLEM with these answers.
NONE OF THEM REALLY MEAN ANYTHING.
If you learn how to approach any woman and get
a date, you'll soon find that you don't know what
to DO once you're actually out ON the dates... how
to take things to a physical level, how to kiss
her, etc...
If you start dating several women at a time,
you'll quickly realize that it's a MAJOR challenge
to juggle all of those relationships and maintain
a happy life...
If you find a really sexy girlfriend, there's a
good chance that she'll have a whole bunch of
personal issues and problems that you never
anticipated...
You have to be careful what you wish for in
life, because you'll often get it.
I've found that guys usually make TWO major
mistakes when it comes to SUCCESS with women:
1) Most guys haven't really thought through what
success means to them in detail.
2) Most guys base their personal idea of success
on what OTHERS want, and not what THEY want for
themselves.
In fact, I was one of the guys that made BOTH
of these mistakes.
I can remember when I first decided to ONCE AND
FOR ALL learn how to be "successful" with women.
I had this idea in my mind that if I could just
learn how to get women's phone numbers quickly and
easily that I would be successful beyond my
wildest dreams.
So I went to work on figuring it out.
I probably spent a good six or twelve months
trying all kinds of different tricks to get
women's phone numbers quickly.
And I figured out some great techniques.
I can literally get a woman's number within a
few minutes of meeting her.
But once I learned this skill, I was hit with a
MAJOR realization: Most of the women I was meeting
never turned into DATES.
They either didn't return my calls, refused my
requests, or just plain flaked out on me.
It was VERY frustrating.
The other problem I had was looking around at
what OTHER guys were doing and saying, "I want to
be able to do what HE does..." or "I want to date
the kinds of women HE dates".
And I secretly had this idea that if I knew how
to date HOT women that all my friends would like
me more and think I was a really cool guy.
Well guess what?
First of all, just because another guy is doing
something, doesn't mean that it would make ME
happy. In fact, I realized that in many cases it
wasn't even making HIM happy.
I couldn't help comparing my success and the
women I was dating with other guys, and the women
they were dating.
But it was a trap.
The more a person looks at what OTHERS are
doing and focusing on that, the less satisfied
they are with what THEY are doing themselves.
And as far as other guys thinking I was "cool"
because I was dating beautiful women... WRONG
AGAIN.
Guys (even friends) usually envy you and resent
the fact that you have success and they don't.
Especially when it comes to really beautiful
women.
So much for those losing strategies.
SO WHAT'S THE ANSWER?
Well, it's taken me a few years to really put
all the puzzle pieces together and figure out how
to resolve these issues.
Here's what I've come up with:
1) REALLY THINK ABOUT WHAT SUCCESS MEANS TO YOU IN
DETAIL, AND WRITE IT DOWN.
Take the time (even if it takes days or
weeks... or longer) and think through what you
want for yourself.
Do a little "self examination" (no, not down
there), and be honest with yourself.
See if you can figure out where your idea of
"what success is" came from.
Did it come from watching movies?
Did it come from guys you know?
Where did you get your model of what "success
with women" is?
Once you've figured out where some of your
ideas came from, then think about what you want.
Think about your life and your lifestyle.
Instead of looking at Playboy and thinking to
yourself "I'd sure like to have seven blonde
girlfriends in my bed", try thinking about what
would make you HAPPY on an ongoing basis.
Take some time to write down the things you
like in a woman. Write down what you DON'T like.
Get a clear picture in your mind of how you'd
like your life to be, and what kind of success
with women would make your life more enjoyable.
After researching this topic for a few years
now, I've come to the opinion that most guys
(80%-90%) actually want to have a great long-term
relationship with a fantastic woman.
Sure, some guys want to date around and sleep
with a lot of women, but the majority of guys
would really like to meet an exceptional woman and
share a great connection... long term.
But guess what?
You're not going to walk outside after you're
finished reading this and find that particular
woman waiting on the corner for you.
In fact, you're probably not going to meet her
anytime soon.
If you want to find a REALLY exceptional woman
that is beautiful, intelligent, funny, emotionally
stable, financially independent, loving, etc.,
then you're probably going to have to date QUITE A FEW
women in order to FIND her.
And when you DO find her, you can bet your ass
that she's IN DEMAND. She probably has MANY guys
who are interested in her on an ongoing basis, and
she KNOWS that she has options.
TRANSLATION: You'd better have your sh**
together when you do meet her, and you'd better
not be acting like an idiot.
So think through what success means to you,
what you want, what you don't want, and how you'd
like your life to look ideally when it comes to
women and dating.
If you're having trouble deciding what you
REALLY want in life, and what you REALLY want when
it comes to meeting women, then go read THIS:
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2) LEARN THE RARE SKILL OF MAKING WOMEN FEEL THE
MAGICAL EMOTION CALLED ATTRACTION.
I have spent a long time now searching for the
secrets of how ATTRACTION works.
You'd probably guess that something as
IMPORTANT and as POWERFUL as ATTRACTION would be
well-researched and widely written about.
Well guess what?
I can't find even ONE good book, audio tape
series, seminar or web site that describes it.
NOT EVEN ONE.
I've read all kinds of "opinions" on
attraction, but when I really compare what I read
and hear to my own personal knowledge and
experience, I always shake my head and say to
myself "No, that's not right".
And by the way, if you've found a book, tape,
seminar, or web site, etc., that lays it all out,
let me know. I think I've reviewed just about
everything out there and met a lot of the experts
on the topic... but maybe I've missed something.
The point is that I think that success in this
area of life basically ALL comes down to
understanding ATTRACTION.
I'm not talking about being "physically
attractive", I'm talking about the EMOTION of
ATTRACTION.
If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, then
nothing else matters.
His looks don't matter, his income doesn't
matter, his age doesn't matter... nothing matters.
On the other hand, if a woman DOESN'T feel
ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else matters!
His looks, income, age, etc. just don't matter.
Nothing he can do can make her feel that
emotion.
Sure, a woman can "fall for" a guy over time.
But in these rare cases it's not because of
ATTRACTION. It's because she starts to feel an
AFFECTION for him, and settles for a long-term
relationship. Incidentally, this usually involves
a man who pursues a woman, buys her gifts and
dinners, behaves in a way that puts her value
above his, etc. And, incidentally, it usually
involves a woman who feels like she's SETTLING.
BUT, if you know how to make a woman feel that
amazing and unique emotion called ATTRACTION, then
you will be in control of your dating success...
and YOU can decide on and control what happens to
you.
A man who has his life together and actually
understands how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION is
FAR more rare than a beautiful woman.
Think about that.
An exceptional man who understands ATTRACTION
is FAR more rare, valuable, and desirable than
even the most BEAUTIFUL woman.
If you don't believe me, then ASK some
beautiful women how many men like this they've
known in their lifetimes.
They'll count them all on one hand.
You'll see.
And the best part, in my personal opinion, is
that it doesn't take any unusual talents, physical
attributes, or large sums of money to learn these
skills.
All it takes is an understanding of how
ATTRACTION works, a desire to learn it, and the
discipline to learn, practice, and improve over
time.
What's a good way to get started?
Well, you're doing it.
I think that reading these newsletters is one
of the best ways to get a handle on how to make
women feel ATTRACTION.
What's an even BETTER way?
As far as I'm concerned, the very BEST way you
can learn how to make women feel the emotion of
ATTRACTION (and more importantly, feel it for YOU)
is to listen to and/or watch my Advanced Dating
Techniques program on DVD.
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YEARS of my personal research, trial and error,
and refining.
I've taken knowledge from various fields...
from brain research and psychology, to animal
behavior and mating patterns... and combined it
with my real-world personal experience of figuring
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One of the most common things I hear about this
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the way I think about women".
I certainly wish that I would have had this
program about five years ago... when I started
out.
It would have saved me about THREE years, and
probably thousands of hours of wasted time.
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