Do you know the truth about what the
man in your life really wants from love and a
relationship in his future, and how YOU fit into
that?
Does just thinking about this question scare you
or make you a little nervous?
If so, then you're probably sensing that you're
just not getting the whole truth because your guy
isn't telling you much about how he really feels.
The fact that you don't really KNOW how he feels,
or what he wants, means that your relationship is
by definition UNCERTAIN and lacks the honesty a
real relationship needs.
Don't let all the things you don't know about that
are going on inside your man's mind get in your
way and be a source of worry and discontent... when
you could easily turn your relationship into the
source of security and confidence in your life it
should be.
A secret about men is that talking to them about
"the relationship" the way most women try and do
rarely, if ever, brings them closer and inspires
them to open up or want more.
But all it takes is a few of the right things that
show a man you "get" him and that create that magic
feeling of ATTRACTION deep inside him... and he'll
want to hold on to you and never let go.
When you do just a few of the right things, then
without knowing why, your man will suddenly TRUST
YOU and start telling you his deeper thoughts and
feelings, in a way he never even knew how to before.
To learn the secrets of how to talk to a man about
love and your relationship... and to start making
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Crystal,
Let me ask you...
Do you have a man in your life who you know
loves you, and who you love... but he's just not
being a great partner right now?
Join the club, right?
Well, don't jump to the conclusion that your
guy doesn't care, or that there's something really
wrong that is going to require some tough "fixing."
What I've learned over the years is that the
women who have great lasting relationships aren't
the women who have just picked the absolute perfect
or right man.
Although the man you choose does make a lot
of difference.
There's something else going on for women
who have great relationships that goes deeper
than having the perfect man who gets it.
There's something different that women who
have great relationships that LAST all have in
common.
And it's one of the best kept secrets out there
for what keeps a great relationship going strong.
The secret isn't about telling a man what to
do, and running the show in their relationship.
That only gives a woman less of what she wants.
(A man who isn't doing HIS PART)
The secret is in the way in these women INSPIRE
the man in their life to be a great partner.
In other words...
A great man isn't just born.
He's SHAPED by the right relationship with the
right kind of woman.
If you haven't really learned the lesson yet,
here's the deal...
You teach people how to treat you.
Just because YOU know what would make your
relationship great FOR YOU... it doesn't mean
that a man "gets it."
But a lot of women waste years of their life
getting upset, hurt, and struggling and fighting
with men who don't get it... when these women
have never taken the time to get clear on what it
is they really want...
And more importantly, to be sure what they
want is what the man in their life really wants
and enjoys too...
And then to do things that keep him EXCITED
and INSPIRED to keep all the great things going.
What I just said is very very very important.
Did you follow that?
Or more to the point, are you LIVING that?
Here's an important thing for you to see
right now-
If you don't feel excited by a man, inspired
to be living a great life when you're around him,
and you don't feel motivated to love him and be
affectionate with him just because of who he is...
Do you think you're going to want to work on
being a better partner to him, and to fix things
he says aren't working because he COMPLAINS that
you're not giving him what HE wants?
If you're a mature healthy woman who wants a
relationship for the right reasons (because it
ADDS to your life and you make each other even
better, happier people)...
Then you're NOT going to be motivated to dig
deeper in a relationship with a man, or change
for him, if you're feeling this way.
But then why is it that so many women try and
do this exact thing?
They ask men to do something they don't want
to be doing, or to feel something they aren't
feeling by COMPLAINING that he's not doing things
right.
Doing this is a HUGE MISTAKE, and a quick way
to make a man feel even less interested in being
with you, period.
Complaining or pleading more with a man when
you sense he's not "feeling it" is one of the
surest ways to kill any attraction or interest
a man might have.
Now, here's the thing...
Knowing that this approach DOESN'T WORK with
any man, what is it that DOES WORK to grab a
man's attention and inspires him to want to be a
great partner for you?
Great question.
Let me remind you of something you've already
seen in your own life that will help show you the
answer...
Have you ever known a man who was kind of a
"player", or a true bachelor... or who just didn't
seem like he'd ever be ready for a relationship-
let alone be an attentive and loving partner?
If you have a single brother, a single dad, or
any other kind of man close to you in your life
then you surely know a man like this.
Well, here's the fascinating thing I want you
to look at and remember...
Have you ever seen one of these men you're
close to and friends with suddenly TRANSFORM
from a hopeless and clueless bachelor, and turn
into an amazing boyfriend and partner?
If so, then I don't have to spend a single
second explaining to you the POWER a mature and
healthy WOMAN who has her act together can have
on almost any man.
A woman who really has her own act together
has the power to quickly take an "unavailable"
and emotionally "lazy" guy and turn him into a
thoughtful, loving, attentive, and even
affectionate man.
It's amazing the effect a woman can have on
a man.
I've personally seen men who were "players",
men who claimed they'd never give up their
"freedom", and men who promised their friends
that they'd never get married suddenly make a
180 degree turn in their life in the period of
a few days or weeks because of one woman.
It happens all the time, and there's something
fascinating and almost magical happening here.
I want to share some tips and insights with
you about what's going on here, and how it can
quickly help you attract a great guy and create
a magical relationship of your own.
Here's what I want you to think about...
When a man makes a real change in his life
and decides to open up to a woman, to get into
a serious relationship... and to create a LIFE
with one woman, does he do all this because the
woman asks him to?
Hmm... Think about that.
Then think about this...
When a woman is with a man and she becomes
that one woman who is able to quickly have him
forget about all the reasons he DIDN'T want a
committed relationship...
And instead have him begging to be with her
and have more...
Does this change happen in the man because
the woman FORCED or manipulated him into a more
"serious" relationship?
Of course not.
Especially not in relationships that LAST.
If a man is truly going to WANT a woman, and
have deep emotional reasons for wanting to have
a COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP with her...
Then all the motivation for this has to come
from somewhere inside HIM.
Or to look at it another way- a man can't and
won't want a woman just because SHE wants it and
tells him the right way to think, feel or act.
I think you see where this is going.
When a women INSPIRES a man to fall in love and
open up to great long term relationship, she does
something every other woman who has a solid
relationship has done at some point early on in
her relationship-
She's made the man she's with feel in such a
way that he has NO QUESTION OR DOUBT in his mind
as to whether he VALUES her.
And because of this... the man she's with
simply KNOWS that she is so SPECIAL and RARE that
he'll do anything to be with her.
Notice I didn't say that the woman has to
try and CONVINCE a man, or complain, in order to
get a man to see her value.
If you find yourself ever trying to show a
man how he SHOULD think or feel... you're making
one of the biggest mistakes you can make with a
man...
Becoming what I call the "Convincer" in your
relationship.
Doing this sets off a natural response inside
a man-
To RESIST you, and to resist all the things
you are trying to convince him of (opening up,
having a deeper relationship)
When this happens, the entire "balance" of
your relationship is thrown off and you become
stuck in the negative and frustrating role of
having to chase a man just to keep him from
withdrawing and being distant.
Don't put yourself there!
There's a better way.
By the way- my eBook shows you, in-depth, how
what I call the "Relationship Balance" works,
and will give you specifics steps and how-tos
to help you avoid ever being the Convincer in
your relationship... and instead have a man be
the one to be courting and wanting more from you.
You can check out my eBook here:
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Ok. back to it.
There's something fascinating I want you to
know about men.
Men can and will TRANSFORM into great partners.
But only if:
1) Your timing is right
2) You know how to promote and INSPIRE him to
get out of his "old ways" and get into the "new
ways" a man acts on when he's deeply attracted to
a woman and wants to be with her
I can't personally do anything about the
timing you and a man have.
But I can show you exactly what you need to
inspire the right man into being an amazing partner
for you.
Of course, the first step is getting a man to
leave behind his "old ways".
For most men, those "old ways" are:
-Not feeling "ready" for a serious relationship
-Thinking he needs to have more money or a better
job, or a bigger house to "settle down"...
-Defending his "freedom" and wanting his time and
energy to focus on himself and his life/job
-Keeping his "options" open, and being free to
date or sleep with any woman he wants
You might be unfortunately familiar with a
man's old ways.
But guess what?
These "old ways" that make a man an AWFUL
candidate for a boyfriend or husband can quickly
GO AWAY. (Remember when I had you think back to
some men you have been close to and how they
changed when they fell for a woman?)
And a man's old ways can be replaced by
something else. Something that makes him the
perfect candidate for a boyfriend or husband.
Here's the short explanation of how this works...
When a man feels a deep level of ATTRACTION
for a woman that goes deeper than just the common
Physical Attraction he can feel for other women,
and stirs him EMOTIONALLY... something turns on
inside his heart and his mind.
When this happens, suddenly a man has a
change in perspective.
His life takes on a new and deeper meaning.
He starts to think about different things.
Things other than himself and his personal and
financial future or success.
And it's then that his "old ways" turn into
his "new ways."
These "new ways" are the EXACT OPPOSITE of
the old ways.
The "new ways" include:
-Him not only feeling "ready" to move forward in a
serious relationship... but asking and begging a
woman to be with him and only him, and to share
more love and affection with him
-Him wanting to be with her no matter where he is,
or what he's doing. He could live in a shoe box
but be happier than he ever was before as long as
she was with him
-Him recognizing that he can have as much, or more
freedom in his life when he has a great woman
with him... and can actually focus and do better
in his life and on his Purpose
-Him deciding on his own that loyalty and a
committed relationship with a great woman is much
more important and meaningful (and rewarding)
than one night stands and quick fun with new
and random women
Have you ever watched a man take on these
or other "new ways" in his life?
Of course. This is what men do once they
mature and get to the place where they want a
relationship... and they find a great woman who
they know they don't want to lose.
Here's the point...
If you're frustrated because you keep finding
that men just don't get it, and that they aren't
mature and don't want to commit...
It's time to stop getting upset that the man
you're with doesn't "get it" and trying to fix
or change what's not right about him for you...
And it's time to start INSPIRING all the
great qualities that are inside a man that will
quickly have him wanting to be a great partner
for you and fully ENGAGING in your relationship.
But of course, it takes more than just
trying one or two "techniques" to make a man
feel this way... and for the amazing way he will
respond to LAST.
And I'm assuming you would want a great
relationship where the man you were with was a
fully engaged and inspired partner to LAST, right?
Then you're going to have to take a little
time to not just learn what to try and SAY to
make things work... but how to actually BE that
will bring you the love of a great man AND fulfill
you emotionally at the same time.
The best news is that it isn't as hard as it
might sound... and you can get started right away.
I'd like to show you how-
I've created an in-depth guide that will show
you exactly how to stop the patterns of pushing
your man and your relationship away... and let
you start INSPIRING him to want to be the amazing
partner you never want to let go of.
Can you imagine your man feeling so connected
and attracted to you that he'd actually start to
get worried that he could lose you, and do all kinds
of crazy things to keep you happy and fulfilled?
It's possible.
And some other women experience it everyday in
the great relationships they've been able to
build... once they learned how to make a man feel
that deep level of ATTRACTION...
And then keep the attraction going strong in
your relationship.
I want you to know what it is that makes a
man feel this gut-level attraction to you on a
Physical and Emotional/Intellectual level... to
where he's inspired to be the best boyfriend you
could imagine- one that you'd never want to let
go of.
Knowing this, and finding out how easy it can
be to enjoy the kind of relationship you want is
closer than you think.
Find out the secrets of attraction I've shown
thousands of other women and changed their love
lives and relationships forever.
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I'll talk to you again soon, and best of luck
in Life and Love!
Your Friend.
Christian Carter
