Johnnydevil's blog: "Real Fu-Kin Life."

1. You need proof. Proof means screenshots of people admitting things. Be it Fu, Yim, etc. These are the most damning ones. Always start with this end to the means.

2. Avoid drama. Yes, avoid interpersonal drama. Just because someone cheated on you doesn't mean that they are a serial cheater. Are there serial users and cheaters here sure. But in order for it to have a max impact, it needs to be a widespread problem. For example, a red using cheater or higher profile piece of crap is a popular item. "Someone stole my fubucks and didn't send me the credits" could be a serial user or thief, but if you don't have a screenshot of the original deal and some variety of proof,it's not gonna work out and there you have some drama. Make sure at least you know what/who you are dealing with. For deals and especially for your Furelationships. If someone's had 281 FuSpouses if you think you are going to be the different one, you are dilusional.

3. My favorite. "This person has 23 accounts." Ok, how do you know this? Have they admitted it? Do you have the email addresses for the accounts? Are they using the same pictures? Have they paid for the salute on this account? Have you recorded a text or phone conversation? Can't make stuff up out of thin air and expect it to get called out because once again, that will become drama. Proof, real proof people, not "he said she said." If I had 1 credit for every time I've heard that, I'd have 12 FuPonies.

4. He/She came to my house and stole things. Do you have a security camera? Fingerprints? Police report? I mean since it at that point becomes real life you have to look at it in a real life way. Uploading a screenshot of your phone bill or food receipt really doesn't qualify as proof. I don't know who the hell made those calls or ate that Ramen. And neither will anyone else.

5. OMG I went to meet he/she and they have a STD, married, kids, don't work and is married but tried to get with me!! Like that doesn't happen every day real life also. If you come across someone that has lied about all of their "baggage" then do you really need them in your life? Just cut them off and be done. If you feel the need to blow them out then spread the word. But if someone says they aren't married but then on a secret Facebook you see a picture of a wedding recently, with a couple rugrats in the corner, there's something wrong. Do your dilligence before getting involved on any kind of an intimate level. And think, is the money and FuStatus really worth the amount of bs lies and drama you will get? It shouldn't be. But for the vast majority of those people that continue to get in the same spots, you really need to take a look at how you approach things, it might be a sign of a deeper problem with yourself. Just cut off whoever gave you that line of bs in the first place, you will find it much easier in the longrun.

6. This person is fake. I get this one. Do you know where there pics came from? Do you have their fake salute attempt? Has someone admitted it? Those are always fun as they never really last long but they can do alot of damage to the people that are that ignorant to know any better. Once again , do your homework.

I post this because recently I'm getting alot of "this person did/does this" kind of stuff. Without a sliver of actual, usable proof. While all information is of course appreciated, don't come looking to me for some kind of blowout in a blog based on he/she said. Now if you've done your homework, have proof and screenshots I'd be more than happy to help anyone that has a problem. Try and talk before pointing a finger. You might get what you are looking for and then you can go there. Otherwise, keep plugging away until you get what you need to make this call and let everyone know what's up. And if you think my standard of "proof" is too high then feel free to go at that blowout alone. But be warned, there are certain ways of doing things around here and if you go down that route yourself, you may just wind up the one in trouble. I hope this makes sense. If anyone has any questions about proof and what is needed, feel free to send me a message.

Thanks and have a good week.

- JD.