Familiarity…….
No matter who you are, we as humans feel the need to be loved and wanted and as such we look for the one thing that can make us truly happy….our soul mate, and when you find the one person you feel is you kindred spirit you devote you time and energy in building the relationship that you so badly desire and in effect you gift them your heart in the hope they will nurture it, keep it safe as you do theirs.
Then for whatever reason, the love, faith and trust you have in that one person is destroyed, time and time again, yet you endeavour to keep loving that person in the hope they will change, they will once again be the same person you fell for, all that time ago.
What do you do, maybe you reach a point where enough is enough, you can physically and mentally can take no more…one hurt to many, one lie to many..on and o, would it not be the best thing for you to just walk away, even though it may hurt, even though you may feel you have lost everything you had spent your time and energy on because you feel that at that time you cannot go on any more, so you move on, start a fresh, start to live again, rebuild, but no matter how far you get the very one you are trying to forget, keeps coming back, haunting you like a ghost, never letting go of you, dragging you back, stopping you from moving forwards, what do you do then……………..
Familiarity breeds contempt, yet it is the one thing we feel we are most comfortable with, no matter how much it has betrayed us in the past, we ache for it, we yearn for it and worst of all..we think we cannot live without it……..we go back, again and again…just like heroin it is like the drug that we have take for so long we feel we cannot live without it, it is our very life’s blood but at the time we cannot see the real damage it is doing to us slowly killing us from the inside until one day there is nothing left but an empty shell..Completely destroyed
So……which is better to choose, a brand new start with all that life has to offer, or the thing we feel most comfortable with yet may end up destroying us completely!!!
