Ok so i do everything to be the best person I can right...so where did I go wrong? I go out of my way to make this as easy as possable so that everybody can get alone in the future. Its important that after the divorce the coparents ( learned that at the divorce seminar) get along for the kids. I bend over backwards and take the high road and just when you think everything is going to work out, she stabs you in the back with lies and manipulation. Why does the nice guy have to always finish last. I relize life isnt always fair but WTF. I guess its time to fight fire with fire, buts it really not my style. I guess when I get pushed ito a corner and there is only one way out I need to take it nice or not so nice now its time for it to be about me and my kids.