what is it with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend? When they are the one who broke off the relationship, why do they feel they still have the right to take all their anger out on you? this is my life, He calls I'm still nice so I answer (well not after this last call), and he uses the call as his way to emotionally abuse me...ok so I let it happen for 2 years while we were together, but once you break up isn't that the end of the end of the abuse? I'll never really know what happened other than the fact that I'm glad it's over. I'm at a better place in my life, and for that I'm thankful for.