You will find me to be an intelligent and engaging person. While I do enjoy the occasional stimulating conversation, I much prefer to tease, flirt and have fun. The world is full of stress and responsibilities, so it is important to find time to relax and enjoy spending time with people.

I also enjoy being a romantic on occasion. I have a few tricks up my sleeve to steel a kiss, I play the piano a little and sing very well. Give me half a chance and I will steal your heart and lock it away in a silver box.


What I'm doing with my life
I just got through playing night in shining armor to my sister. She had an accident which caused a condition call fibromyalgia syndrome (FMS). She was very depressed and people where worried about her so being the caring brother I went down there to help take care of her.

Little did I know the price would be my career. It turns out that technical positions in that area where just not available without knowing someone, so five nightmarish years later we are finally stable. She has almost fully recovered and has a good friend to help her out which gives me back my peace of mind, but now my education is outdated and I'm starting my career from scratch.

I'm not upset by any means, I did the right thing and I don't regret it even for a moment. In fact, when you think about it, in a way it is a blessing. I get a chance to reset my life with the wisdom and insight of my pass years and I can pick a better path.


The first thing(s) people usually notice about me
I'm not certain about what they first notice, but I do hear two things people always seem to say to me.

1. Do you every get mad? 2. Do you ever cuss?

For the longest time I thought there was something wrong with me, maybe I should try to fit in more. Now wherever I look everyone is trying to accomplish through self improvement what came perfectly natural to me.

Go fig.


My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I don't read books any more. There is always too much to do in real life it is hard to find the time.

I do enjoy movies though. I relish the idea of a story brought to life and really find myself getting drawn into it. I know few movies are every perfect or historically accurate but that is the last thing to worry about. Just enjoy the story .

I don't listen to any one kind of music. If I'm traveling I like something with a beat. Sometimes I want to relax and throw in some classical. My collection is small so I would really enjoy it if a music lover would open me up to a few new artists.

Food, I'm a guy. If it's not moving all is good. Kidding, I like a mix of foods. Sometimes a simple hotdog or a grilled hamburger with lots of this and that can't be beat. Other times I want a T-bone steak topped with mushrooms sauteed in a red wine sauce.


I spend a lot of time thinking about
True love to be honest. I think I have figured out how it works and exactly why it is so rare. It is not actually one single secret, but three individual ones that work in harmony. I will only share it thought, when I am face to face with the person asking and we won't be interrupted.

Or it could be a devious trick. Are you sure you want to take that chance?


The most private thing I'm willing to admit here
I have a small collection of stuffed animals I keep on my monitor. Each one holds a special memory so I keep them close where they can watch over me.


You should message me if
It doesn't matter why you message me, whatever it is, just don't hesitate. You never know what will happen or where it will lead and if you don't, then you are guaranteed to get nothing out of it.

So you can be safe guaranteed to receive nothing for doing nothing, or you can take a chance and possible get something good. Your choice.

So what are you going to do?