The other night i was on here and a friend of mine posted a blog about big girls. He wanted people to vote on whether or not they like big girls or bony bitches. There were quite a few negative comments about big girls, which i understand of course. Then there were a few big girls on there talking about how great their life was stuff like that. Well I decided to be completely honest and voice my opinion.
Heres what I said.........
(this is in response to a couple of ppl saying fat girls need love too)
Fat girls do need love but being a fat girl myself, i hate my body and if i were a guy i wouldnt date someone like me...does that make sense??? ok so maybe im a disgrace to the whole bbw name but im just being honest. I get lots of attention but most of the time its just cause men want to get in my pants they dont want to take the time to get to know me first....fat girl=easy...thats how men see it.
Then a girl (that i ended up adding as a friend...lol) said that she finds my honesty refreshing...heres my response to her.
yeah thanks mel, what im saying is true and all these women can sit here and disagree with me but tell me how many big women actually attract hot sexy men? i mean i have had a couple but in the end all they wanted was sex....theres a rumor out there that says big women give excellent head and i suppose they do damn we like to eat...lol (sorry girls)
Then the same girl said that its hard to be so honest about your faults and that she has a problem facing her sometimes.
hey i know what i am and i have heard it all...im 31 years old and i have been made fun of and been turned down cause of my weight...yeah its my fault cause i havent changed it...its hard to be honest about your own faults i have learned the hard way...a lot of tears have been shed and a lot of growing up and facing reality...i take excellent pics of myself but come on i dont look like that in real life...im fat, im a big girl...am i proud to be a bbw...hmmmmm sometimes i am sometimes im not depends on the day
Then there was this girl, she was a bbw of course, that said she had a good man and hes very sexy that a lot of women want him.
well tiger im happy that you have a good man and every woman wants him.....i happen to present myself with class...so i have a few sexy pics on my profile and yeah they get attention but in real life im nothing like that...im not a slob, i dont make myself appear to be easy nothing like that...i have a great personality..im just brutally honest and some men cant handle that, that and my weight..lol..but hey its not a big deal to me cause im happy by myself at the moment....but for all the big girls out there that has found good men...hang on to them cause there arent many left... most men date big women cause of they have low self esteem and they think that since shes like that they can give her attention and she will think hes the greatest thing thats ever walked the earth....most big girls end up in abusive relationships because they have such low self esteem.
Why I just shared this with you Im not sure...its been on my mind all day....How do I really see myself? Sometimes I hate the way I look and sometimes I love the way I look....I know im a great person but can a person really be completely satisfied with the way she looks?
