In my life I've worked in television, radio, and even newspaper ... originally from the Triad area ... currently I'm running the videoconferencing unit at a major university medical school ... I'm a very easy going nice guy . . . I am living simply with the time to enjoy the things I could not enjoy while raising three sons without their mother . . . I do belong to H.O.G. (Harley Owners Group)...and have a Hobie Mirage Oasis kayak (two-seater with a sail) ... I was raised by a very strict "Old South Gone with the Wind" Southern Grandmother and I know how to treat a Lady ... as long as she wants to be treated like one ... I like those old fashion things like hand holding ... long rides in the country on a warm afternoon ... paddling down the river or in the sound ... sneaking kisses at the stop sign ... lazy Sunday afternoon naps ... concerts on the river bank or over at the university recital hall ... I work hard during the week and I would really enjoy the company of a Lady to enjoy those after work hours and on weekends ... no games .... no BS ... no joke ... so if that appeals to you ... drop a note this way and say so ...