Since understanding my full nature 6 years ago, I've been seeking fulfillment ever since. I am not one for casual scenes and meaningless flings. I tend to run into alot of the players and people I would consider 'kink friendly'. I have no real issue with either except that they do not suit my personal needs. Perhaps I take things too seriously but I live within the lifestyle, it's not just a passing phase for me. This is not a game, or something to do when one is bored and (forgive me) horny. I feel it is much more than that. It is a way of life. Including physical, mental, emotional, not just fetish, kink and sexuality. It should encompass all of these aspects and more. Well what can One say in these ads that has not already been said? I value the ways of the old world and have troubles adjusting to the new way of things in the modern one. (the age of the internet and informal munches, play parties where nothing is private) Physically- I usually have my head shaved, goatee. My lifelong nickname by friends and family has been Grizz or Bear. Nuff said ;) My Mate considers me an extremely attentive and compassionate lover. She says she has not a single complaint. What I desire is someone that is submissive. Experienced or not. If I was to put a label on the type of Dom I would be, it would have to be Daddy Dom. Due to my attenion to detail and need to fulfill not only the physical needs, but spiritual, emotional, and mental aspects. But in the end I am simply me. I am without games, and drama. It's a waste of time, and a waste of one's energy. I am working towards building a bdsm family. I want my one to be my everything. she will balance me and fit in well with the family. She will be as serrious about the lifestyle and her comitments to old world values as I am. The only part of the puzzle that is missing is her.