hmmm what can I say,,I am puerto rican born and raised in NYC,,has 2 wonderful boys who just graduated from college and high school,,18/25,,they are my pride and joy,,I am happily divorced, never to marry again..I do have a pic of me that is on here, that was taken last year after i lost 93 lbs!!!,,i am a nurse by trade, hurt myself back in 1999, been recovering and working p/t as a bartender..will go back to nursing soon...I have been burnt so many times I don't even like to date much at all,,I am not trusting, but i am very honest,,(maybe too much so),,I smoke ciggies, i don't do drugs nor do I drink,,I don't judge people, i enjoy making friends with everybody,,growing up in NYC taught me that,,,i lived in Pa for the past 17 yrs raising my 2 boys in the country,,as of next month I will have empty nest syndrome,,I hate where i live, a small prejudice town that doesn't accept people,,so i am moving..I love the warm weather so it won't be in the north,,i love to dance, listen to music, shoot pool,traveling. i am comfortable staying home as well as going out,,I support myself and is independent,,maybe one day i will find a man who shares my interests,,,so far i have met liars, cheaters and men who play head games,,i am too old for that shit,,if a man can't be honest, has to cheat to make himself look like a man,,screw it, I can't be bothered,,i treat my men like gold..that is why I am alone,,do i sound bitter?..not really just realistic...i still love sex even at my age ha ha,,but i won't fool around with just anyone,,would rather live without it then just screw around,,has no meaning,,save it for the younger crowd..i like a man who is passionate, not afraid to show his feelings,,knows when to be a man with responsibilites,,yet can be a kid too...don't give me any macho men, show me you can play in the water,,yet love me when the time is right,,in return he gets a woman who doesn't cheat,,stands by her man and knows how to treat him..ok back to trying to learn how to work these settings,,ha ha ha