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Goodness, ok I know I have been complaining that I have been on bed rest because I got told on by two 13 year olds. Well I had my tubes tied on the 17th of this month. I had to do some last minute running around during the week.....not my smartest move after getting something like that done. So I guess I'm not healing fast enough and I feel like the Hulk is punching me in the guts. So I got sent to bed....only to go to the bathroom and back, otherwise I get yelled at.
Here is the kicker, before I got them tied I had to have three 3 "Are you sure" doctor visits, and explain why I want to do this. (I have no kids) Even as they were putting in the IV my obgyn asked if I was sure.
I get it, I'm "too young" I'm "Not sure" blah blah blah.....I have had to raise four boys baby sit for FREE (not of my own will or want) kids from new babies to teens. I told my mom when my 3rd brother was born, I was never having kids.
Well kinda changed my mind, I would rather adopt than have my own....you see mental disorders run ramped in my family, I my self have bipolar and depression....(The bipolar is just the mood swings from happy, sad, mad and repeat)
What I had to deal with growing up with these "problems" was not fun, plus the meds....don't get me started on stupid doctors and insurance companies.... I would NEVER wish that on my worst enemy. and I know for a fact I would not be able to watch my child go through what I had to. It would KILL me to have to break down my kids door and shove my hand down their mouth to get any pills they have tried to swallow to try and kill themselves. I would NOT be able to handle it.
So with much thought, and LOTS of support from some of my family, I had my tubes tied. I told my mom and aunt, why would I want to bring another child into this world when there are so many without parents?
When the time comes, I will adopt. I know I want a boy and maybe a girl.
I have been told, I was stupid for getting it done, that no guy in his right mind would want me because he can't have his own kids and other crap.
My response, if the man I choose to marry loves me, and understands me, then he will have no problem with it.
I'm sorry, but I hear all this stuff about abortion and "It's our bodies! Our decision!" Well I think that applies with getting your tubes tied before you even have kids. I'm 26 in the eyes of the world I am an ADULT, not a child. I really don't think it's such a big deal. but to everyone else it is. Don't know why, they didn't do it, I did.
You are entitled to your opinion, and so am I.
Just like tattoos, I didn't do it hoping for your approval, I did it for myself. My body, My rules.
The more you know!
