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Gay, Bi, Lesbian, ect
created @ 03/19/2012 06:21 pm
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The times have changes so much since i was in HS. Maybe it was becasue I was raised in a small town, But if you even thought about the same sex it was un heard of, But now it seems more common that men and women are "bi"

I know myself that I was married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful children, but the love of my life is a female. No one in my family knows about the relationship we have had for over a year. But there is so much discrimination that I hear on this subject.

Alot of ppl say it is a way for females/males to be permisquis (sorry spelling lol) but with me. . its about comfert and letting my heart be happy, She is my best friend. and she understands me more then any other ever has, I dont have to hide anything. and when it comes to the intimacy. I hate to admit it but guys always say that I just haven't had the right guy. I dont think that is the case tho, i truely believe it is getting to know your partner emotionally and listinging and learning and not assuming.

So i guess my point to this mumm is... have times really changed and is it acceptible. or because I am a mother, should I protect them and keep what truely makes me happy to myself.

I want my children to love with there heart and not ever judge or feel judged, I am not saying I would be happy if one of my kids were to come to me with the fact that they are Bi/gay ect .but I would for sure try and see it for hopefully what it was and not judge.

I am a good mother, my kids are very well taken care of, I get compliments on how respectfull they are. They all get great grades and I am so very proud of them, I know that they would understand, but is it the right choice to tell them or wait till there older
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